Friday, 3 July 2015

                       Why fiction is good for you


The beautiful lies of novels, movies, and TV stories have surprisingly powerful effects — and may even help make society tick.


Is fiction good for us? We spend huge chunks of our lives immersed in novels, films, TV shows, and other forms of fiction. Some see this as a positive thing, arguing that made-up stories cultivate our mental and moral development. But others have argued that fiction is mentally and ethically corrosive. It’s an ancient question: Does fiction build the morality of individuals and societies, or does it break it down?
This controversy has been flaring up — sometimes literally, in the form of book burnings — ever since Plato tried to ban fiction from his ideal republic. In 1961, FCC chairman Newton Minow famously said that television was not working in “the public interest” because its “formula comedies about totally unbelievable families, blood and thunder, mayhem, violence, sadism, murder, western bad men, western good men, private eyes, gangsters, more violence, and cartoons” amounted to a “vast wasteland.” And what he said of TV programming has also been said, over the centuries, of novels, theater, comic books, and films: They are not in the public interest.
Until recently, we’ve only been able to guess about the actual psychological effects of fiction on individuals and society. But new research in psychology and broad-based literary analysis is finally taking questions about morality out of the realm of speculation.
This research consistently shows that fiction does mold us. The more deeply we are cast under a story’s spell, the more potent its influence. In fact, fiction seems to be more effective at changing beliefs than nonfiction, which is designed to persuade through argument and evidence. Studies show that when we read nonfiction, we read with our shields up. We are critical and skeptical. But when we are absorbed in a story, we drop our intellectual guard. We are moved emotionally, and this seems to make us rubbery and easy to shape.
But perhaps the most impressive finding is just how fiction shapes us: mainly for the better, not for the worse. Fiction enhances our ability to understand other people; it promotes a deep morality that cuts across religious and political creeds. More peculiarly, fiction’s happy endings seem to warp our sense of reality. They make us believe in a lie: that the world is more just than it actually is. But believing that lie has important effects for society — and it may even help explain why humans tell stories in the first place.
IT’S NOT HARD to see why social critics have often been dismayed by fiction. We spend a huge amount of time lost in stories, with the average American spending four hours per day watching television alone.
And if the sheer time investment were not enough, there’s the content. Since fiction’s earliest beginnings, morally repulsive behavior has been a great staple of the stories we tell. From the sickening sexual violence of “The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo,” to the deranged sadism of Shakespeare’s Titus Andronicus, to Oedipus stabbing his eyes out in disgust, to the horrors portrayed on TV shows like “Breaking Bad” and “CSI” — throughout time, the most popular stories have often featured the most unpleasant subject matter. Fiction’s obsession with filth and vice has led critics of different stripes to condemn plays, novels, comic books, and TV for corroding values and corrupting youth.

But fiction is doing something that all political factions should be able to get behind. Beyond the local battles of the culture wars, virtually all storytelling, regardless of genre, increases society’s fund of empathy and reinforces an ethic of decency that is deeper than politics.

Fiction is often treated like a mere frill in human life, if not something worse. But the emerging science of story suggests that fiction is good for more than kicks. By enhancing empathy, fiction reduces social friction. At the same time, story exerts a kind of magnetic force, drawing us together around common values. In other words, most fiction, even the trashy stuff, appears to be in the public interest after all.

Wednesday, 1 July 2015

Are Girls Mean to Each Other??


                    INTRODUCTION:

Girls are mean to each other for different reasons.
*They get jealous of each other girls, that might be because of theirs intelligence, beauty, social interactions or anything else. Once they starts getting jealous of other girl, they do whatever they can do to prove that they are better than who ever they are jealous of. 
Secondly girls be mean to other girls for no reason, its just like their trait for being mean to other girls.

                   Supporters of the title says:


1. Girls are too mean to eachother
In school there are girls who talks crap about other girls, even though those girls have'nt done anything to them. They says stuff like "OMG look at your hair its so last year" and "you are such an ugly creature."

                      Opponent's reply:

* Nooo they're not.
They are most of the time being honest. They are giving their opinion. They are told to speak they're mind but when they do it comes across as mean. I don't think that's right. You shouldn't tell girls to speak their mind if you don't like what they say.



2. Girls hurt each other in many ways.
At school all the girls do is fight with each other. They creates such situations for girls to go home and hurt themselves physically and mentally by spreading different rumors about them. It is a constant thing among girls. Girls are way to mean to each other on a daily basis.  

                         Opponent's reply:

* Not all are.
Not all girls are completely mean to each other. Yes some of the girls you find are mean to each other but you have to take a look at every single one.



3. Cyberbullying, Stealing friends.
They bully alot more than boys because girls are more insecure. Also they take advantage of Facebook or Other Social website and they cyberbully thinking they won't get caught. They also take girl's friends or boyfriends if they think that girl is too ugly for that specific person. So yes girls are too mean to eachother.

                        Opponent's reply:

* no, girls don't steal friends or boyfriends.
Girls don't steal another girl's friends or boyfriend for they are ugly, nobody can. It totally depends upon that particular friend or boyfriend's sincerity towards their friend or girlfriend.





4. There are many examples of movies.
There are numerous movies which support the title. A well known movie "Mean Girls" were made specially for this topic and showed how mean girls can be with other girls. Whereas, movies like Clique, Wild Child are also examples to support this title that "Girls are mean to each other".

                          Opponent's reply:

* There are good examples in movies too.
There are not the movies only about mean girls, but the movies like Aquamarine, Lemonade mouth and many others are examples of how loving and helpful girls can be to each other. Even the movies "Mean Girls, Clique, Wild Child" ended up making those mean girls feel guilty and becoming friends.



*Girls should overcome their insecurities and inferiorities.
*Girls should stay happy and satisfied with what they have.
*Girls should admire other girl's qualities rather than getting jealoused and ultimately being mean.